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Monday, January 11, 2010

Love Dating and Relationship Tips

13 tips to help keep a girl

1. Keep your promises!!! if you say ur gonna call her on Wensday call her on Wensday even if it kills u!
2. Be honest, girls hate being lied to
3. Tell her exactly how you feel dont hold back; she'll love it
4. If she seems tired kiss her and say shes beautiful
5. Trust that she will be faithful to you
6. When you go in for the first kiss go SLOW dont scare her
7. Anything romantic you want to say to her dont say it over the phone or email say it to her in person it will mean so much more to her
8. When you want to tell her I love you, say it to her while looking into her eyes
9. Hug her from behind with your arms around her waist
10. Tip her chin up with your finger to kiss her
11. Be romantic for no reason
12. Understand that shes not always going to agree with you
13. Don't cling to her, she wants independence

Everything you need to know

okay well to see if a girl really likes you ask her friend. if that doesnt work while hanging out make a move. If she seems disintrested then make it seem like a joke.
If she does seem intrested then make your move!! sure everyone likes something they cant have but theres always that one guy you never knew liked her and he will soon make his move when he finds out that you're in.
Dates:
1.Movie- nothing can beat a good movie. wheather you;re there to watch the movie or make out its always a cute and safe place to be. Also, make sure that YOU buy the ticket and ANY food that she wants.
2.The Beach- fun fun and fun. every girl thinks its the cutest thing ever when their boyfriend takes them to the beach. wheather its during the day or a late night picnic they will love you for it. but make sure that they like the beach and getting their toes in the sand. Also, if its a day date then be a cute boyfriend. If she does then carry her into the water[piggy back, etc.], play volleyballl, tan in the sun, take a walk, make a sand castle, look for sea shells and MUCH more. make sure that if you do take her to the beach that you either pack a lunch or bring money to go out to lunch.
3.theme park-here you get to have your fun too. show off your moves by winning her a stuffed bear. girls love it when you give them stuff. Also you can go on rides that they might love or be really scared of. if they seem scared then keep telling them that its going to be okay[if it seems like shes laughing while not wantign to go] but if shes totally scerious then DONT take her on that ride and find one thats more for her.
4.mini golf- this is a cute way thats perfect for an almost night date. you can rap your arms around her while helping her with her putting but make sure that YOU know how to golf first. throw some jokes in like 'you suck' but make sure that you say it in a joking matter and she gets that its a joke. because when you do she will ask for your help. After golfing you can eat at the place thats there[if they have one] or go to an easy cute family owned place thats nice and cheep money wise. fridays or apple bees would be fine also.
5.Dinner-this is what catches a girls heart. now there are two different things so i broke them up.
a. out to dinner: going out to dinner is really fun. wheather its a nice resturant or an easy yummy place they are both great. make sure to tell her where your going so she knows how to dress. if its a suprise then tell her how to dress[nicely, fancy, what you wear to school/during the day]. let her choose ANYTHING on the menu and make sure that you pick up the check. group dates are also great so getting to know her and her friends and for her to get to know your friends.
b.make dinner your self!! girls love this because it shows you care and make sure that you make something that she likes and is able to eat. make the table look really nice and everything.
i have so much more to tell you but im getting tired so look for my 'everything you need to know TWO!' thankssssss

8 simple tips to get and keep a girlfriend

Hey guys, here are some things you should do to win over a girl's heart. (And this is right from the source, a girl herself)

1. be nice to everyone (including animals), not just your crush. Girls notice these things.

2. Make excuses to talk to her. She'll appreciate that you�re going out of your way to talk to her. (I.e. ask her 'what time is it?� to borrow a pencil or pen etc.)

3. When asking her out, don't be afraid of her saying no, if she does, chances are she won't be mean about it. But even if she doesn't like you right now, she IS flattered that you�re paying attention to her. We all love to be noticed. She may say yes at a later time. Ask AGAIN

4. If you have a girlfriend, include her in your life, don't exclude her. If you play sports, ask her to come to one of your games and meet the team. Introduce her to your family. Do things that YOU like to do, except, with her. She wants to be a part of your life, not watching in from the outside.

5. Flattery is acceptable, and appreciated. BUT ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT. Notice little things about her, don't just say 'you're beautiful' all the time. If she wears her hair differently, tell her you like it. If she gets a new pair of shoes, notice them. Also, flatter her personality.

6. We all love surprises, they make us feel special and loved. I didn't say PARTIES though. If your planning a surprise party, ask friends and family if she likes that kind of stuff first.

7. Innocently touch her whenever you can. If your nervous, try starting out by touching her arms or shoulder when you talk or when you're walking. See how she reacts and go further if you get the 'all clear'.

8. Last of all. Just love her and let her love you. That's all she really wants. To love and be loved

Being a real Boyfriend

Guys, i know hearing advise from other guys kinda bites at our egos, but here it goes.

If you truly love your girl, you have to believe and know that she is the most important person in the world to you. She is what makes your world go round. You have to let her know that.

She isn't the most important "thing", shes your most important person in the world. Your girlfriend is not a object to be won, to have to use, she is a person in your life who is to be loved and treated as so.

If you treat her like she is the most important thing in the world, then you dont need any dating tips.

What girls like

here are some tips....
*if u really like a girl and she talks to you around ur friends dont laugh at her or make fun just cause your friends do.
*if u wanna talk to her go ahead and just say like hey then later say so how r u doing.
*first become friends and get to know her before u ask her out.
*once u know her ask her to be ur gf.
*call her on the phone once a week.
* wait about two weeks after you ask her out to give her a hug.
*wait a couple months later till u kiss her on the cheek, u will know when ur ready.
* after a year of going out you decide when to give her a kiss on the LIPS!!!

not all girls are the same

truly, not all girls are.. all girly. or at least, if they are, they do not show it. of course many of us like romance and cuddling, and hugging and the oh so typical "i love you" routine. but many women will seem more cold, or more... uh... masculine(and i dont mean the appearance, but the way of behaving). dont think you'll win a woman's heart just because you're all lame-o with her, and get her flowers and some nice lingerie. it does help, but sometimes some women are so hurt from previous relationships they will consider some of these acts as insults or boldness. in that case, many times there is nothing you can do but persevere, and show them that you truly are different from all the idiots she loved before... with this kind of woman, it will truly be quite a chase, as she wont easily trust you or pierce her hard shell of coldness. but be yourself, be sincere and mos important of all, do have patience and try to understand what she's been through. even if you think her revious relationships were not that traumatic, do NOT open your mouth about it. she probably feels different about this subject, and you would only be lowering the chances of gaining her respect. another thing. some of these women need their space. they've become so distrusting of men they dont even want them around unless it's truly necessary. so do not bug her all the time. make your phonecall count, leave her a small but meaningful and thoughtful note and she will eventually become used to your presence in her life, allowing you to become close to her. do not, however, allow yourself to become a doormat for these girls. sometimes they do have a desire for revenge, even if you're not the guy who hurt them. you gotta have some self respect too. i speak for myself, but i could never respect an idiotic guy who could not stand for himself. hope i helped you guys undestand a little more about this kind of creature that is the heartbroken woman. maybe some of you guys will now learn how to find a path to our hearts again. good luck, in some cases, you'll truly need it.

The Seven Dating Rules

1) if a girl says she's not interested, she's NOT interested!
2) when asking a girl out, do NOT insult her in any way!
3) compliment something about the girl's outfit, regardless as to whether you like it or not.
4) mentioning other girls is a big NO!
5) don't make the girl pay for herself, even if she offers.
6) be a gentleman (pull her chair out for her, open the car door, pay, whatever works)
7) BE ON TIME (it may seem dorky, but the girl will appreciate it)

BIG no!!!

If a girl asks you if you love her, but you really don't know, you have two choices.

1. tell her something like, of course i do, or , as much as life itself, and then think long and hard about it or,

2. Tell her, I don't know for sure, I can promise you I have strong feelings for you but I don't really know what love is. She will probably answer with an explanation of what love is, if you ask me it is a load of bogus to try and describe love to someone else, but her explanation will give you time to think. make up your mind fast and be romantic or at least kind in your answer.

Best idea in the world though is just make sure you love her before you ask her out.

Dos and Don'ts.

There's always a few things girls want or don't want, that they won't admit. Either, not to seem childish or rude or demanding, or is embarrassed to admit or fears hurting your feelings. Follow these few dos and don'ts for a little idea of what those things are.

DO ;

- Be romantic. Every girl wishes for roses, or a Hollywood kissing scene. Makes these moments worth it. She'll never forget it and love you for it. Plan something special in a meaningful or beautiful place, admit your feelings, and kiss her.

- Be protective, defensive. She feels safe and loved and cared for when you stand up for her. Be careful though. When it's jealousy and just too much of it, don't make her feel bad for having guy friends or hanging out. Talk to her about it, but realize she needs space.

- Trust her. If you love her, and she loves you, you have no reason not too. It's hard sometimes, if she's got alot of guy friends and such, but trusting her will make her feel dependent and trusted.

- Read her body language. If she wants you to hold her hand, she'll fiddle with her fingers, if she wants to kiss you, she'll lick her lip, if she gets closer, give her a hug. If it's obvious she does not want you to do something, resist doing it.

- Tell her you love her. Remind her of your feelings. Make it worth it though and don't over use it. Make sure it's special and that you really mean it.

- Share the control. Most girls like having their guys plan a date, or make the first move. But it's always fun to pick too. Suggest that she picks what to do, or let her lean in to kiss you.

- Spoil her. Even if she told you not to get her a present for Christmas, or her birthday, bring her a little something meaningful and cute. Suggestion? A perfume or fragrance you picked yourself, or a necklace or piece or jewelry. Personnalized things mean even more. It doesn't have to be much, but you have to mean it.

DON'T ;

- Do not push onto her whatever it is you want ; a kiss, a make-out session, whatever. Let her decide to participate and do not force her into anything.

- Do not hesitate to call or email. Plenty of relationships die from just not enough communication. Plus, it's usually impressive when a boy makes the move to call or talk.

- Do not bring your buds without asking her. Most of the time, girls won't mind having your friends around. She'll feels included in the gang and accepted into your life. Although, if you invite friends without asking her first, she might feel offended and that you just don't want to spend time with her alone.

- Do not be afraid to show your affection in public. That doesn't mean hardcore make-out in public, but hold her hand, put your arm around her, kiss her on the cheek. She'll feel prized and confident.

Anyways, so there are a few simple tips that I'm sure most girls wouldn't complain about. Goodluck.

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What is Love?

esearchers (Hatfield & Rapson, 1995) have broken up love into two main types:

  • Passionate love which involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.
  • Companionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.

Now one of the best known theories of love (which means an educated guess that isn't proven fact) is Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love.

The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:

Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone.

Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.

Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time).

Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.

Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship.

Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.

Now Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:

Is there love at first sight?

This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.

Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?

This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.

Can their be love without sex?

Ah yes, companionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.

Why doesn't romantic love last?

Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.

This a close friend sent me e-mail:

Infatuation vs. Love

Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.

The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.

The Meaning of True Love

Love that is true lasts forever. - Unknown

To be loved is to live forever in someone's heart - Unknown

Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says: "I need you because I love you." - Erich Fromm 1900-1980

Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. - Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land, 1961, 34.

Love is, above all, the gift of oneself. - Jean Anouilh, Ardele, 1948, (2, translated by Lucienne Hill)

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line - Lucille Ball

Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do: the sacrifices you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a newborn into the world. If you want to study love, study those who sacrifice for others, even for people who offend or do not love in return. If you are a parent, look at the love you have for the children you sacrificed for. Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate feelings to values. Love, the feeling, can be recaptured. - Stephen R.Covey


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